Weddings these days are changing fast. People now want destination weddings, private court ceremonies, or even “just us” vibes. But even with all the modern trends, there are some old traditions that still hit differently.
If you’re planning to get married soon or you just love wedding gist, these are 7 beautiful wedding traditions that still matter today, and why they’re worth keeping.
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Asking for Her Hand
This isn’t just formality. It shows respect to her parents, her family, and the culture. That visit, even if it’s small and simple, sets the tone. It says, “We’re serious. We’re ready.”
Engagement Ceremony
Whether it’s full-blown with drummers and dancers or a simple family gathering, this part is so rich. It’s not just fun, it’s history. It’s where culture meets love.
Spraying of Money
Let’s be honest, no wedding party is complete without it. The music, the dance, the joy and then the money rains. It’s not about showing off; it’s about celebration. And yes, the couple can use that cash too.
Aso Ebi
This is more than just matching outfits. It’s how friends and family show support. Wearing that color shows, “I’m with you on your big day.” Plus, it makes the pictures look amazing.
Breaking the Kola Nut / Sharing Palm Wine
This one is deep. It’s about unity and peace bringing two families together. Some people skip it, but if it’s part of your culture, keep it. It adds meaning to the celebration.
Bride Price or Dowry
This one gets mixed reactions. But when done the right way with moderation, it’s not about “buying” the bride. It’s a symbol of appreciation to the bride’s family for raising a queen.
The Prayer Circle
Ever seen a bride kneel as her parents or elders pray over her? That moment is powerful. In all the glam and fun, this is one of the few quiet, heartfelt moments that remind everyone what marriage is really about blessings, commitment, and a fresh start.
Final Thoughts
Trends will come and go, but these traditions carry meaning. They tell stories. They connect us to our roots. And most importantly, they make the day even more special.
So before you say “I do,” think about which traditions matter to you and find a way to include them. You don’t have to do it all, just make it yours.
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